Is there ever a situation in a family when parents and children both get what they want? You bet there is!
Charts and contracts are a great way to ensure that both parents and children are getting what they want. Charts and contracts are an agreement between parents and their children that involve the parents making certain benefits available when their children do certain other things. Charts and contracts are concrete, visible reminders of this agreement and can help motivate children to engage in positive activities, complete chores, or learn new skills.
Everyone has Goals
Parents naturally have certain goals for their children. Often these goals have to do with managing their children’s behavior, but they may also include helping their children learn new skills or offering encouragement to reach goals their children have set for themselves.
Contracts
A contract is a written statement of what your child agrees to do and what the consequences are if he or she accomplishes that goal.
Charts
A chart is a contract that uses pictures to illustrate and keep track of an agreement between you and your child.
Benefits
Effective use of charts and contracts allows for:
More opportunity for success—charts and contracts outline attainable goals. Instead of overwhelming children with a large expectation that may be abstract and intimidating, these tools allow for incremental improvement and growth, with positive reinforcement at milestones along the way.
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